12 Quotes & Sayings By Emma Straub

Emma Straub is the author of more than a dozen books, including The Vacationers, In One Person, and Happy All the Time. Her work has been translated into twenty-seven languages and has been named one of the Best Books of the Year by The New York Times Book Review, The Washington Post, Time magazine, and several other publications. She lives in Brooklyn with her husband and two children.

So much for being a good friend was knowing when...
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So much for being a good friend was knowing when to keep your mouth shut. Emma Straub
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Why bother getting married, going through all the pomp and pageantry, if you didn't think it was going to last? It was far easier to live in sin and not have to deal with the paperwork. Emma Straub
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Maybe that was the answer to good parenting–pretending the first child was the second. Emma Straub
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It was so long ago now that the job felt like part of her soul. Like being a teacher or an artist who made things out of sand. You never really saw the results. You just trusted that you knew what you were doing and that everything would work out okay in the end. Emma Straub
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Some people smoked crack in alleyways. Franny ate chocolate. On the scale of things, it seemed entirely reasonable. Emma Straub
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There was nothing about youth that was fair: the young hadn't done anything to deserve it, and the old hadn't done anything to drive it away. Emma Straub
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She had the wild look of someone who hadn’t slept in twenty-four hours, with purplish semicircles underneath both her eyes. Being eighteen was like being made out of rubber and cocaine. Emma Straub
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Elizabeth ran her finger along the windowsill, gathering dust. The view was almost exactly the same as from her own bedroom, only a few degrees shifted. She could still see the Rosens' place, with its red door and folding shutters, and the Martinez house, with its porch swing and the dog bowl. She'd heard once that what made you a real New Yorker was when you could remember back three laters -- the place on the corner that had been a bakery and then a barbershop before it was a cell-phone store, or the restaurant that had been Italian, then Mexican, then Cuban. The city was a palimpsest, a Mod Podged pileup or old signage and other people's failures. Newcomers saw only what was in front of them, but people who had been there long enough were always looking at two or three other places simultaneously. The IRT, Canal Jeans, the Limelight. So much of the city she'd fallen in love with was gone, but then again, that's how it worked. It was your job to remember. At least the bridges were still there. Some things were too heavy to take down. Emma Straub
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...all she wanted was a button she could push to pause her age, just for a little while, a few years, while she got used to the idea. Emma Straub
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There was nothing in life harder or more important than agreeing every morning to stay the course, to go back to your forgotten self of so many years ago, and to make the same decision. Emma Straub
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Why couldn't everyone stay young forever? If not on the outside, then just on the inside, where no one ever got too old to be optimistic. Emma Straub